6 Things I Learned These Holidays & Want to Keep Doing This Year
Members of the Expat Nest family will know that I switch off completely from my emails and social media accounts at the end of every year. It takes some discipline at first, but the rewards are always more than I could ever have imagined! This year’s digital detox led to the following reflections…
- Time feels more expansive when we choose to unplug (even just for a day or half a day, if more is not possible in your everyday life). Our mobile phones seem to have become an extension of us; it’s only when we take a break that we discover more mental space. We begin to consciously spend time on the things that matter instead of scrolling down our screens just to pass time.
- If we want to be able to ‘run faster’, we need to slow down. We can’t run all the time; we need to re-energise. After a point it is important to stop and ask yourself: Why am I doing this? Is it time to take a break and slow down? An extra bonus if the answer is “yes” and comes from a place of self-care rather than from exhaustion that forces you to stop.
- I’d like to stick to my holiday routine of no screen time for at least 60 minutes before going to bed and on waking in the morning.
- Our lives are not like Hollywood movies and they don’t have to be perfect all the time to be amazing! It’s okay: sometimes things don’t go as planned and something can ruin the ‘perfect picture’ (of a family meal or party with friends, for example), but does it matter if it’s not perfect?! What matters most is togetherness, and to love the other with their flaws.
- It is great to take time to connect with myself, to cut through the noise and prioritise what matters to me. This doesn’t always have to be something big; small things work too (it was great to spend a whole day cooking for my friends!).
- An end-of-year reflection is crucial as a compass for the new year: thinking on what worked well, what I will take forward in 2019, what I will leave behind (emotionally too) and what my intentions are for this year (not New Year’s resolutions, which I don’t necessarily believe in). But also leaving some space for magic and to see where life takes me.
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