Catch My Interview on Midlife Marriage Meltdown!
I got together with Sundae Schneider-Bean for a fascinating chat on love, sex, expat couples, midlife crisis and marriage meltdown. I was honoured to be interviewed by Sundae, a solution-oriented coach and intercultural strategist for individuals and organizations who is “on a mission to help you adapt and succeed when living abroad and get you through any life transition”. As you can probably tell, we have a lot in common!
Here’s how she introduced our session:
“Go to school. Get a good job. Get married. Have a family. That’s what the climb up looks like to ‘living the dream’. Then, like a waterslide without the fun, midlife hits and suddenly, you’re spiralling down into a cold-water awakening.
Biological and psychological changes combined with (yet) unmet goals funnel into a perceived dissatisfaction with your life in general. You start projecting your personal problems onto your spouse and begin to question your decisions.
“Should I have moved abroad?”
“Did I pick the right partner?”
And here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:
- the hidden competitions within an expat couple
- vulnerability and the different levels of exposure
- language scripts that spark cooperation
- why relationships are like an accordion
- hard questions to ask yourself before leaving
- the truth about infrequent sex
We also look at questions like: “Is it a midlife crisis, or is it a marriage crisis?” (clue: it can be both) and “how does living abroad affect this”? I also share a little about a long-term relationship I ended a few years ago, and why.
Listen to the interview, entitled “Midlife Marriage Meltdown” (or read the full transcript), here.
I hope you find it valuable!
How has midlife changed your perspective? Do share your challenges and triumphs below!
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